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As you may have gathered from my not-so-subtle recipe and title, Cooking for Keeps is getting a new addition! Kevin and I are expecting our first little bambino in mid-December and we could not be more excited.
So! A little backstory. I’m 20 weeks along and feel wonderful. Yes, this was planned and no, we aren’t finding out what the gender is. I go back and forth on wanting to find out the gender, but Kevin was dead-set on not finding out, and he really doesn’t ask for many things in life, so I granted him this wish with the caveat that I rule all things pertaining to decorating the nursery, picking out strollers and other fun stuff I can actually control.
I don’t want to brag and some of you mommas out there might want to punch me, but I’ve been one of the very very lucky ones that has had virtually no pregnancy symptoms. Besides a mild three-week bout of not feeling 100% myself in the first trimester, I’ve felt great. It’s almost a detriment though, because up until my 16-week appointment and even still a little bit now, I would get myself so worked up that something was wrong since I was experiencing so little symptoms that I nearly drove myself crazy. Luckily, we just had our 20-week sonogram and baby looks perfectly healthy – such a relief!
For full disclosure and because I think it’s important for these issues to be openly discussed, I’m going to give you a little bit more detail on our pregnancy story. I have always been a worrier, and for some reason I just never thought I would be one of those people who would get pregnant right away. I have no idea why I thought this since I’ve never had any issues that might prolong the process, but nevertheless I was preparing myself for the possibility of it not happening instantaneously. We decided to try and make it happen in November…
Imagine my utter disbelief a few days shy of Christmas, when I randomly decided to take a pregnancy test at work “just to make sure,” as I was about to embark on the holidays and a heavier drinking schedule than normal, and that second pink line popped up…vividly and immediately.
After several days of shock, too many positive pregnancy tests and sharing the news with our parents and two of my best friends, it finally started to sink in and I was elated (and scared!).
Fast-forward a few weeks later, I was having some spotting which my doctor assured me was perfectly normal, but then it picked up a bit, and I just knew something wasn’t right. Long story short, I went in to get my levels checked and they were only measuring at four to five weeks instead of seven weeks…at some point early on, the pregnancy just didn’t take.
Because it was so early in the pregnancy, there was no need for medical intervention and nature took its course. I was then told to wait one full cycle after the miscarriage before we could start trying to get pregnant again, the first month, nothing. I was actually kind of relieved since we had so much coming up in the summer, and I said that if nothing happened again the next month, then I’d hold off for a few months so I could just enjoy the summer. Welp, a few days after Easter…another positive pregnancy test.
I was definitely more hesitant to get excited this time around for obvious reasons, but nine weeks passed, then 12, then 16 and now 20. After each appointment I felt more and more confident, and finally feel ready to share the news.
The reason I wanted to share the entire story is because I feel like miscarriage isn’t really something that’s openly talked about, and a lot of women trying to get pregnant have no clue how common an early miscarriage is. After I had mine, almost everyone I talked about it with either had it happen to them or knew someone close to them who did as well, and sometimes it’s just nice to know you’re not the only one.
We’ve already gotten started on the nursery (I’ll definitely share photos once it’s complete), had our first baby shower (thrown by my sweet mother-in-law, Karyl and sister-in-law, Ryan) and I’m going shopping in the next couple of weeks with my Mom for a crib and glider – this is REAL…
Now, what better way to celebrate a baby than with all things miniature and adorable?? I whipped up these super cute baby corn cakes and sausage skewers for a random Sunday brunch this past week, but these would be the perfect addition to a brunch bridal or baby shower.
To go with the sweet and savory breakfast bites, I threw together a super quick blueberry syrup with a handful of fresh blueberries and some pure maple syrup (make sure to use the good stuff), then dusted them with a little bit of powdered sugar and served them on a pretty white platter.
Adorable.
- ½ cup flour
- ½ cup cornmeal
- 1¼ teaspoons baking powder
- ¼ teaspoon baking soda
- ¼ teaspoon salt
- ⅛ cup sugar
- 1 cups buttermilk
- 1 eggs
- 1½ tablespoons butter, melted
- ½ teaspoon vanilla
- 1 pound bulk breakfast sausage
- 4 tablespoons pure maple syrup
- ½ cup pure maple syrup
- ½ cup blueberries
- In a large bowl, whisk together flour, cornmeal, baking powder, baking soda, salt and sugar. In a liquid measuring cup, measure buttermilk. Add eggs, butter and vanilla. Whisk until combined.
- Add liquid ingredients to the dry. Mix just until combined.
- Heat a large non-stick skillet to a medium heat. Use a tablespoons to measure small pancakes, cook about 1 minute per side.
- In a medium bowl, combine sausage and maple syrup. Shape into patties the size of pancakes, about 1 inch. Cook in a large non-stick skillet until brown on both sides and cooked through.
- In a small saucepan add blueberries and and maple syrup. Bring to a boil and reduce to a simmer. Simmer until blueberries have slightly broken down, but still have some texture, about 3-4 minutes.
- Stack mini pancakes in between sausage bites. Skewer and serve with blueberry syrup.
lisatberry says
Congratulations on your baby news!!! and thank you for being so honest on your journey to getting pregnant.
Laura (Blogging Over Thyme) says
Baby pancakes, and even better a REAL baby! So happy for your news. I’m so sorry to hear about your earlier miscarriage, I know that must be really tough. Both my sister and my mom experienced miscarriages, and you’re so right, it is something that really is never talked about, but is so common (trust me, having a doctor as a husband makes me even MORE aware of this, ugh).
You look amazing, and I’m so glad you’ve had an easy pregnancy so far!!! Can’t wait to see whether its a boy or girl in December! 🙂
Meghan says
So happy for you guys! Loved celebrating at Baby L’s baby shower. I had no idea about your miscarriage. We miscarried between Connor and Andrew at 10 weeks, it is HARD. I guess that’s why I try and play off their almost 4 year age gap. Can’t wait for December!
Jamie says
Congrats!! I think it’s great that you talked about the miscarriage. I struggled with infertility for nearly 3 years before I got pregnant and I talk about it all the time – because so many women struggle and it’s like there’s a stigma about it and they keep it to themselves. The more we women can share our struggles, the more we can heal and the more women we can help! It’s sometimes helpful just to know you’re not alone.
Alaina {Fabtastic Eats} says
gosh I am so darn excited for you! I’m sorry to hear about your miscarriage, though I am someone who believes things happen for a a reason..I know, very cliche..but it’s exciting that you’re already halfway along! I love that you’re not finding out the gender…we didn’t either with our first and I Was so happy..there are not many real surprise in life, and it will just make the delivery that much more exciting! Im happy you’ve had such a good pregnancy! Cant wait to see pictures and watch that bump grow! Congrats to you both!
Izzy says
yah!! Congratulations! I loved reading this post and I love your honesty about everything! I’m so sorry you experienced that but I have heard that it is very common and it sounds like things are great this time around! That is awesomely you haven’t had any horrible pregnancy symptoms! These little Johnny cakes look like the perfect way to celebrate!
Ashley says
Congrats Nicole!!!! So excited for you guys!! I’m sorry to hear about your miscarriage but so glad that everything is going well this time! And these little cakes are the perfect way to celebrate!
Jamie Newton says
Yay, so excited the big news is officially on the blog! It took courage to tell your story and I’m so proud of you Nicole. Love you and can’t wait to try these beautiful baby pancakes! XOXO
Stephanie @ Girl Versus Dough says
Congratulations, Nicole! You are on one of the best new journeys of your life, believe me — and if these bebe pancakes are any indication, that journey is going to be filled with all the yummiest food for you and your growing family. So excited for you!